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The Fruits of Formation

The first weekend upon returning to the college seminary, the seminarians go on retreat to spend some time together as a community and to prayerfully prepare for the upcoming year in formation. Each retreat has a theme, and the theme of this year’s retreat was “Rebuild My Church.” This retreat challenged us to look within ourselves and determine where we can grow. As I was reflecting on my life to this point, I began to realize the growth that one year in the seminary can produce.


I have experienced many graces this past summer, and many of these experiences would not have been possible if I did not place my trust in the Lord and allow Him to work through me. While I was on retreat, one event in particular stood out to me as I was spending time in prayer. In the seminary, we are all given assignments outside of the seminary community whether it be in a parish, a soup kitchen, other work with youth, the poor, etc. My assignment last semester was teaching a group of seventh graders religion on Monday nights at a nearby parish. When I learned I would be given this assignment, I was a little hesitant as I had never worked with the youth much in the past. On the retreat I mentioned earlier in this article, the Monsignor who led the retreat made a very wise observation: 90% of the things we worry about do not happen, and the other 10% that does happen, we find the strength to do it. That was certainly the case with my assignment! Once I started, I really began to enjoy teaching the seventh graders. I would look forward to finishing classes at the seminary on Monday afternoons and going directly to the parish to teach the young students. Taking my experience from my assignment at the seminary, I was able to have the confidence to speak to students at my home parish. This summer, I had the privilege to speak to each class in my parish’s summer religious education program. Every grade from the first graders up to the eighth graders provided me with a window into the lives of children and young adults today. Though it was not that long ago that I was in their shoes, it is easy to forget the struggles, challenges, and temptations that young people face in today’s world.


One main aspect of priestly ministry is understanding the struggles people in all stages of life are facing. In order to be an effective minister to God’s people, one should be able to work with the different groups of people and assist them no matter their stage in life or the situation they are faced with. The life of a priest is not an easy one by any means, but we do the best we can despite any limitations. We make the effort to carry out God’s will as best we can, but in the end, the results of our work really belong to God.

Nicholas Esposito
Nicholas Esposito attends The College Seminary of the Immaculate Conception at St. Andrew’s Hall, Seton Hall University in South Orange, NJ.
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